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embarrassing moment #658,764,412

why is there cotton in my mouth you ask?  [i’m pretending that you can see it even though you probably can’t.]  why did you just post a 셀카 of yourself with a weird surprised face and flowers in the corner?  well, those are very good questions my dear friend, so let me tell you a little story …

soooooo, i’ve had this weird open wound on the inside of my mouth, in the crevice between the inside of my bottom lip and my gums.  it’s a little more red than normal, and it’s been hurting for about a week whenever i talk, eat, or wiggle my face to check if it still hurts every 20 minutes [hopefully none of my students have seen me do this].  

i finally decided to stop being a cheap American and just go use my healthcare, so i went to the dentist on Tuesday, and came back for a follow up today.  both times they squirt a syringe of something into my mouth while simultaneously sucking it up, and then dabbed the area with ointment.  they also added ointment to a cotton pad which i had to hold in my mouth draped over my teeth for 30 minutes.  

now, there’s a cute lil flower shop near the dental clinic that i have been wanting to visit since my rose herbs keep dying [ㅋㅋㅋㅋ if i go to the same ones maybe they’ll know i’m a murderer].  i told the lady when i got there i couldn’t speak very clearly as i had just went to the dentist’s office, and she was really sweet about it.  she excitedly sold me a new rose herb, rosemary [which she initially thought i wanted], and a pot for the second plant.  another guy came in to buy flowers and she insisted i wait as she helped him even tho i had already paid.  i hung around, and when she finished helping him she arranged a bouquet for me out of the flowers leftover from his.  she was too sweet!!  definitely going back there~~~

i was perked up from her random act of kindness, but still just focused on getting home as fast as possible without making eye contact with anyone, but of course today i saw several of my students.  i never see my students outside of school!!  and then, i ran into a French couple working at the Loving Hut near my house!  i met them earlier this week when i went in for some vegan tomato gratin~  i showed them a shortcut back to our area and we swapped life stories, mine muffled by my new cotton friend.  i was mortified to run into them at first being unable to speak very clearly, but we had a good time chatting and getting to know each other.  we’ve exchanged 카톡 info and plan to hang out sometime before they leave~

somehow my embarrassing moment turned into a pleasant start to the evening.  now, i just have to figure out a way to keep my newest rose herb alive ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

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i had a great 추석 vacation last week.  was honored to be invited to Clever Coteach’s house again to participate in 차례 with her family, the traditional Korean memorial ceremony.  i unfortunately missed the ceremony [had gotten up early to make apple crisp and my shady oven wasn’t quite finished with it when i wanted it to be], and they finished in only 10 minutes this time.  
i spent the rest of the day hanging out with her and her family.  they taught me how to play 화투 [고도리/Go-Stop], it was so much fun.  i need to bone up my skills for next time tho, her mom is the master.

i had a great 추석 vacation last week.  was honored to be invited to Clever Coteach’s house again to participate in 차례 with her family, the traditional Korean memorial ceremony.  i unfortunately missed the ceremony [had gotten up early to make apple crisp and my shady oven wasn’t quite finished with it when i wanted it to be], and they finished in only 10 minutes this time.  

i spent the rest of the day hanging out with her and her family.  they taught me how to play 화투 [고도리/Go-Stop], it was so much fun.  i need to bone up my skills for next time tho, her mom is the master.

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my first weave.

so, as promised, i’m going to tell you guys about my new hairstyle.  it’s been a lil over a month since i got my first sew-in installed, and i’m still loving it for the most part.  

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this is super de duper long though, so if you’re interested check it out under the cut …  

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studylikeadoctor:

HOW TO ORGANIZE YOUR STUDYING SCHEDULE: 

Hey guys!! Since some of you asked me how I organized my studying schedule for this summer, I thought it would be best to make a post about it. It’s the first time I make a post such as this, and I’m sorry for the poor quality of my photos, but my mobile phone has the only camera I have at hand, so let’s get down to business! 

  1. KNOW YOUR DEADLINES: It’s important to know when do you have your exams, when is that essay due and so on. This way you’ll keep track of time and you’ll know how much time you need to commit to each task. I would advise color coding each one, as I did with the subjects which exams I have to retake in september. This way, you’ll have your goals and needs always in mind. 
  2. KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO STUDY: It’s important to be sure of all the things you need to study. As you can see in this image, I wrote down every unit I need to know for my anatomy exam, and I did the same for the other subjects as well. I also added a little checkbox beside each unit in order to keep track of all the times I revise each one so I can know at a glance how I’m doing and where I need to improve. 
  3. USE ADDITIONAL TOOLS: Getrevising is a webpage that can help you create a schedule if you don’t know where to start. It gives you the opportunity to, completely free, add your classes, appointments, subjects and deadlines to create a schedule. You can also give a priority to each subject so they can assign more study hours to those subjects you find more difficult or where you need to invest more time. I used it as a reference, because it is not perfect, and I don’t know if it’s possible to change the study blocks from 1 hour sessions to longer or shorter ones, but it helps you to make an idea of how many hours you should invest in each subject. Anyway, this tool is completely unnecessary, but I used it because my study schedule is for the whole summer (that’ll be two months of holidays) and so I felt a bit overwhelmed by how many things I needed to tackle. 
  4. EDIT AND WRITE YOUR OWN SCHEDULE ATTENDING TO YOUR NEEDS: The most important thing when you write your study schedule is to know your strengths and limits. I printed a weekly schedule from my laptop iCal to see at a simple glance how many things I had going on in a week and how many hours I could dedicate to study. You can find simple weekly calendars anyway or you can even make your own. The first thing I wrote down were all those unavoidable things such as birthday parties and weddings and medical appointments as well as those things I want to do daily such as running, bathing, walking the dog or reading a bit at night. Once this is done, I can see how many free hours for studying I have, and if I feel like they are not enough, I cut down some things that aren’t completely necessary, because sometimes what is necessary is to make some sacrifices. But remember to always leave some free time for yourself, because it’s good for you to relax and get some strength back. Then, looking at your get revising schedule or simply knowing your needs, write down every day which units you are going to study. Try to be realistic, and don’t cram things in every study session. If you can only study tree units in one morning, then do that. Otherwise you’ll feel stressed and you won’t keep up with your schedule, which can make you feel bad and think that it’s not being useful at all. I’d also recommend highlighting your subjects with the same colors you used for your deadlines calendar, because it’ll help you make an idea in your head of your week. 
  5. TRANSFORM YOUR WEEKLY SCHEDULE INTO A DAILY ONE: I find it better to, once a weekly schedule is prepared, write it down as a daily one, to the hour. Some people may think this is a bit obsessive, but it makes me less stressed knowing what I should be doing in every study session. Moreover, it makes me feel satisfied crossing out things I have already done, and crossing them out of my list! If you’ll feel stressed watching the things you have to do every hour using just the weekly schedule may be fine for you. I used a simple lined notebook and wrote the hours myself. 
  6. PLUS:KEEP TRACK OF YOUR PROGRESS: If you don’t want to make a daily schedule, or if you’re not accustomed to follow a schedule this thick, you may find useful keeping track of your progress. You can write down what you do every hour your dedicating to studying, or maybe you can write down things as “I planned to study for 3 hours with two 10 minutes breaks and I managed to study just 2 units when I planned to study 3”. This may help you know your weaknesses and analyze what you’re doing right and what you’re doing wrong. When you realise things as this, you’ll find it easier to make a reliable and realistic schedule that is up to your needs and strong points. This way you’ll know if you work better in the mornings or the afternoons, if you get distracted easily… But remember that the most important thing is to take things easily and bit by bit. Everyone works differently, and what may work for others may not work for you. Analyze and know yourself, and then no one or anything will stop you. 

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I hope you found this helpful. I know this is just my method, but some of you were curious about it and I find inspiring knowing about other people’s methods. This way you can find your inspiration to work out your own methods and habits, and you’l feel much less frustrated when you manage to achieve your goals, but take your time and be patient. Succeed will take your hand if you work hard a bit everyday!!!! 

useful info for anyone out there on their study grind!~  

i’ve been meaning to do a post about how to stay organized/decorate your planner for months, but i haven’t gotten to it yet.  is that something you guys would be interested in?  meh, i’ll prolly do one anyways cuz i dunno what else to post ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

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